Although we have had dinner lots of times at our house, tonight it seemed different. Some of the girls have already left for college, yet all are on their way somewhere. And tonight we had a few of the remaining ones over for Steph’s last home-cooked meal before she leaves.
Of course the whole idea of such a thing reminded me of what they do before an execution, which made me a bit uncomfortable. Of all of them, I am probably the closest to feeling that way, but I understand. I know this is an exciting time, and in truth it excites even me. I just am not a fan of the drama…..and apparently it exists mostly in my own heart!
But part of it also deals with the bigger picture. This group of girls is a great bunch. I know it is hard for them all to begin to transition apart, but for all us parents comes the reality that it will never be the same again. It is doubtful they will all be together as they have been before again.
Of course as a coach, I deal with these same feelings at some level each year. But this year these are girls I have come to know almost as pseudo-daughters! Fortunately for me a few of them will still be here in Indiana for me to say hi to, or buy lunch for when I am by them. For the others, they will have to find me next summer or on breaks.
In truth, we have a group of parents that I am certain could write these very same words, and who probably see Steph as one of their own as well. It is hard for all of us. But I thank God they are there for her and the others in their lives.
The herd may be thinning, but our love for them stays strong. Tomorrow is the outing with our family and then it is off to Missouri. Hopefully some of the girls still here will check in on us!
They are all pretty special.
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+