MAC the strife……..

I am trying to just get a grip on all the stuff that piles up when you can’t seem to get to it in time. Sometimes those things pile up because you cannot get to them, at other times they pile up because you make some changes and the learning curve puts you behind……for me, both are true.

First of all, a few months back I switched from a PC to a MAC. I understood the PC, but oddly enough it was always bogging down. The MAC I do not understand. What I can say though is that it rarely bogs down, and ultimately it will be a good thing…….I am just not too sure when ultimately is.
Then of course I switched from a Blackberry (which I again, understood) to an Android. Same issues. Now however, neither my MAC or my phone sync correctly with each other, and although I have tried, all it seems to do it copy contacts over and over on my phone. Of course this is far better than deleting contacts. I mean now if I need to call a particular hospital I have its number there in my address book 20 times. But I secretly feel like an idiot and I just need one of everything and SIMPLICITY…..which is what I was going for in the first place.
I know MAC has what they call the genius bar, but I was too cheap to get that at the start and oddly enough felt smart enough to figure it out. I have not only now seen the error of my ways, but also am coming to grips with my limitations. I may need to just belly up to the (genius) bar as they say and down a few with my humble pie.
But for now I will just call it a day. I might first however call the Bishop……..I just need to decided which of his 20 numbers to call.
Goodnight and God Bless!
Tommy+

Hey…..that’s NOT funny!

Well I had written a pretty sharp post on humor tonight and had even built my thesis around one of two inspirational cartoons I have had in my office for many years, both from cartoonist Gary Larson. But in researching things, apparently they are not fond of people using their cartoons without copyright, and rather than risk anything, I decided to just hit the old delete button. So what WAS funny, is not longer funny anymore.
But I am not going to let that get me down, because as long as I remember, I have been a very funny guy. Of course now that I have had a stroke, I really cannot remember too much past this morning, so I will just have to go off the memory of friends.
I do know in 1999 I was voted the funniest priest in my entire family. It was an honor and a title that I still hold……hands down. And professionally, I used to begin every sermon with a joke, a practice I seem to have forgotten, but one I would like to restart. Any why? Because I love, and I believe people love, to laugh.
So tonight, now that I have technically posted twice, I will just laugh my tired self to bed. There’s not a whole lot you can do about it, but you do want to always do the right thing…….and there’s truly nothing funny about that.
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

Nothing of any importance…..

Wow…..walking around the house with carpet under our feet is pretty awesome. And, if I live through the night, I get to begin taking the aspirin again, which may not seem like much to you, but it is really the only preventative med I take post-stroke. I have been off it for 12 days!

So really tomorrow just gets things back to normal, and I couldn’t be happier. The house is looking great, Superman is putting on a show for me tonight, and before 9pm I feel confident that I will be asleep by 10! Of course as a young man I would just be beginning my evening, or at least deciding what I might be doing. And to be very honest, tonight I am not a young man any longer! Sleep is what I desire tonight!!
So with that I will just bid you goodnight. Sometimes you just have to know when to hit the hay….now is the time!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

What Lassie??…..Superman has fallen into the well…….???

I am a bit out of sorts today, having spent much of the day at the doctor’s (a specialist). He told me to take it easy for the next few days, which made me laugh because I live with a three year old (currently dressed as Superman) and such advise is nearly impossible. What I can say was that my uncontrollable laughter made me clearly happy he was not a psychiatrist…….I’d probably then be resting in the unit!

But I am doing my best to honor his directions. Of course that meant that I would get the call this afternoon, which I did…..the carpet installers will be here first thing in the morning. Timing doesn’t appear to be going my way. I will get through it though.
But my rest is ending right now because Superman is now in trouble with his mom who is frantically painting the baseboards before the carpet……something I had hoped to have accomplished yesterday. And Superman has been running around rather than staying in bed here with me watching the TV. I have never heard of anyone saving Superman, but tonight it happens here. The cool part is that it will be something else I am sure I can add to my resume!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

What??? They’re coming home???

Mercy me, the house is a mess. I have been removing carpet, padding, staples, and doing laundry. What I haven’t been able to do is to get it all done, so things are a bit of a mess. I did however, get all the carpet done. Amanda and Ben will be returning from Lindenwood this evening.

I’d like to think that this was merely a mis-calculation of the total amount of work and not an “age of the worker” thing, so we will just go with that….okay? Regardless, the good part is that my working to get this done saved a lot of money…..something I will be saying again and again as she and I talk about all that laundry on the couch. (It’s clean because I washed it! I just didn’t fold it…..I’m a guy)
So I suppose I will just wave the white flag, because I am really just too tired to do much else. At least I will live to be an indentured servant another day!
Good night my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

Tom the Builder….yes I can!

I thought about writing a particularly serious entry this evening, because something happened to me a while ago, and I have been meaning to address it. BUT, I have been working feverishly on our house today, and I just do not have it in me. And, I am currently VERY BEHIND on where I thought I would be.

So I am on the porch once again with our “free” alarm system, who is fast asleep on the porch floor. I don’t blame him, after all he has a pretty tough life…..sleeping all day and riding in the car and all. Who wouldn’t be exhausted after all that? I do imagine that he will find it in him to get up and eat just as soon as I fill up his food bowl……even though he had a McDonald’s cheeseburger when I stopped to get myself a Diet Coke.
So tonight my blog lacks purpose and direction, a lot like my ministry I am told, but I really never listen (yes, that is a joke….at least the latter part). I am just pleased to be home and am within just a couple of hours of having all the tack strips pulled up from the old carpet. As I understand it, the new carpet will be in town at least on the 18th. We hope to see it installed next week.
My next big job will be to paint the baseboards tomorrow and possibly replace that door jam on the back door. The house really doesn’t need too much, and that is a good thing. The next major job will be to remove the kitchen counters and sink the day before the new ones are installed. My ability to do these things is saving us a ton of money, and since it is money we do not currently have, this is a good thing.
So I guess I will go make my hands bleed some more….I mean pull up some more tack strips. The good news is that I am on my 8th day off blood thinners in preparation for a procedure on Monday, so a nick will not make me lose most of my weight. And without the blood stains, those baseboards should be a total breeze to paint!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

A peace of carpet, a glass of whine, and thou……

Well it’s just Viper and I, and the cat I suppose, here at home alone tonight. Amanda has abandoned me for a weekend at Lindenwood to see Steph, and I am left with pulling up carpet in preparation for its replacement early next week. We are putting our house up for sale, and are carpeting the upstairs and stairwell, as well as having new counter tops installed. If you know of anyone looking for a house with an awesome back porch, please let them know that I will throw in the cat.

But for now I am out here and just enjoying the peace and quiet. It is perfect…..52 degrees, and yes, I have the ceiling fan on. I am a BIG FAN of the cool weather, and I not only love it, but to type this blog I sit under a BIG FAN…..I do hope the irony is not lost on you dear reader!
But tonight really represents more than just some peace and quiet….something BIG happened tonight as well. You see, I was originally not coming home until tomorrow, but with a game tonight I made arrangements for my rookie Assistant Coach, Jack Russell (yeah, I know…..just like Russell Crowe) to coach the game. He is a talented soul, and just thought I would stay away tonight and give him a shot.
WELL……he not only coached the Lady Millers to victory by TWO…….but he did it without a GOALIE. He is AWESOME. I think I will ask him for a job at practice!
So it has been and is a great day. I have one more room to pull up, and then the stairs. It may all wait until tomorrow. I am enjoying this peace and quiet just too much to let it go!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

Missing the dark ages……

One of the disadvantages of being away at a meeting in a facility where email and electronic communication is limited is that all that you have been missing is waiting for you when you return to electronic civilization. I will be working to catch up with that all weekend.

Of course in the “good ole” days, a trip such as mine wouldn’t have been such a big deal. There would be some letters in my mailbox (it’s that metal thing out on the street) and I might have a few calls to return. But all of it would be quite doable and doable quickly.
Now we have conversations that take place via email and the ways we connect are electronic and instantaneous. As a matter of fact, as I was standing on the edge of the beautiful lake at Ferncliff trying to get a better signal I even wondered if I needed to get myself one of those satellite phones to make sure I could always be in contact.
WHAT is the matter with me????? Do I really need to be that connected? And what is the matter with us that it is so important to make sure each breath is connected, or better yet posted, for someone to read?
In truth, what we call convenience causes me a lot more stress than if I hadn’t had it at all. And although I certainly enjoy the concept of being connected, I enjoy my sanity too….or at least I used to. So maybe the key is to find a balance. I think I will work on that. But for now I just can’t……I have about 100 more emails to go through.
Let me know if you know which movie the picture is from….it’s one of my favorites.
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

The return of the referee….

I am once again in the north, although I am not yet home. I am in a hotel in Effingham, Illinois where I am hopefully going to bed soon. The great part is that I will be home tomorrow and perhaps can pick Ben up to go goof off a little after lunch.

I spoke to Ben tonight who was in trouble. He was crying uncontrollably, and all I really could get out of him was that he was upset that his mommy was mad at him. Later Amanda told me that he had cried for the last hour because she would not buy him an Ironman toy, but he’s just 3, and I am sure that just could not be the case. Stopping for the night disappoints me, but I suppose it keeps me in a better position to mediate that conflict tomorrow. But let’s face it…..women just do not understand the male need for action figures as kids and it just gets worse for them in understanding us as adults. Clearly they need help!
But for now I am in a nice room (the last they had) and I have the air down COLD (the last night I have for that too) and I am pretty relaxed. I am just 170 miles from home, but have already traveled 450 today, and I am ready to be home, but for now more ready for bed. I need my beauty rest for my return tomorrow. If Amanda and Ben are still fighting, at least the dog will be happy to see me!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

Getting by with a little help from my friends…….

This will be my last night at Ferncliff, at least for another 6 months. And, I want to thank Dempsey, the camp dog for visiting me again and for his help in writing this blog. He got right up on the table next to where I was typing this for the picture. He wanted to type, but it has rained here and his paws were muddy! It has been a beautiful setting, and although I will hate to leave it tomorrow, it will be good to get home. It is approximately 610 miles from my house, and since I will be leaving Little Rock at about 4 (5 my time) it is doubtful I will make it home until Friday.

But on the upside, I will at least be heading there. It’s not that I do not think being here is fruitful, because it has been, but I do miss my family. Life is often a matter of balance, and lately it has been heavy on the work and travel side for Amanda and I both. And it may surprise you to hear this, but I really do miss being wrong! But it is not as easy as it appears for me….. I will arrive on Friday, she will not be there anyway, so I will need to get used to being right a few more days I guess. I will await Sunday night with baited breath!
But for now I am on a break, awaiting dinner and then a service this evening. Tomorrow will be less conversational and more informational. I just hope to feel like driving!
So goodnight and God Bless from beautiful Ferncliff…..I hope you have had a blessed day!
Tommy+