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Blessings in our home……

In my life I have had the blessing of meeting some fine people, particularly through my kids.  We have had their friends practically growing up in our home.  And many of them still stop by and are still like family.  I know that my kids too are seen the same in their homes as well.

The blessings however, have expanded, especially since Steph lives in Missouri now for school.  During her first two years I have met many of them during visits, but occasionally some of them end up traveling through here or even coming to stay for a few days.
Such was the case this weekend when Steph’s friends Mel Podry and Kathryn St. George came to visit.   Mel I know fairly well, as for these past two years she has been on “Ben’s List” as one of his many girlfriends.  Kathryn I knew of, more than knew.  I knew her mostly as “George” which is what her teammates call her, just like they call Steph “Tirman,” (which of course confuses me when I am there and here it).  But as a pretty experienced lacrosse coach I can say that “George” is one of the best all around lacrosse players I have ever seen. She is nice and very likable too, which I am sure not too many of her opponents would agree with!  But who cares?  I root for the Lions!
But they came here for the weekend and seemed to all have a great time.  It meant a lot to me to have them here.  They are all wonderful young women and their being here helps me to stay connected with all the stories when Steph is gone.
Yep, life has changed quite a bit over the years, but one thing remains constant……..my kids have some remarkable and impressive friends!
Goodnight my friends and God Bless!
Tommy+

Oh No! A “WheresGeorge.com” story…..

There’s a website called “WheresGeorge.com”  It has been around for years, and it is where people register the serial number of a $1 bill and stamp it with the “WheresGeorge.com” seal, or write it on there after registration.  It is always interesting to see where dollar bills come from and go to.  It takes just a minute or two and it is a lot of fun.

Well a couple of days ago, after stopping at the Home Depot, I received a dollar with the seal on it and I took it home.  I have looked them up and posted my receiving the bill lots of times, but it was never more interesting than this one.

I apparently was the second poster of this bill.  The original poster was from Indianapolis, which is just about 20 miles away, but it said that he had received it as change from a male stripper at a dance club in Indy.  From there it went to the Home Depot where this guy probably bought something.  But from there it went into my wallet, a priest of the Church.  And tomorrow it will go into an offering plate at Church to be blessed and reconsecrated for God’s Work!

I did find it pretty funny though. And it will be interesting to see where it goes after tomorrow…..particularly after giving it to the Lord for His Work now!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

Choosing the good portions in life……..

Today has been an exceptional day, and one I will not soon forget.  It was not only unbelievably hot for the millionth day in a row, but I ended by doing a funeral this evening for a remarkable woman and friend whom I wish I had spent more time with……Lynn Udrasols.

The funeral however, if you can believe it, was the highlight of my day.  Three of her grandkids spoke, as well as other family, and it was filled with joy and laughter and wonder.  I last saw Lynn a few days ago when I gave her Last Rites.  Her body was broken, she could not speak, but thank God right now she is free!

The grandkids did such a great job that if I had the money (if I had any money) I would gladly have hired them all right away!  They were a gifted bunch…..something of course I would attribute to Lynn being so close to them in her life.  It was really very cool!

But now I am home.  It is still way too hot, but I so very thankful I went out in it.

I could just focus on the heat, but I won’t!  God’s blessings are all around us, and sometimes to see them we have to look at other things!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

Of Ninja-eeeey things……..

As if we needed our home to get any weirder……. Ben’s last birthday present arrived this evening.  It’s just too bad he was not here to see it.  What, or better yet, WHO appeared was a ninja who seemed to me to be familiar.  For the life of me however, I am sure I will never figure it out.

This however, is far more realistic than the last ninja we had in our home.  It was well over a year ago, and I am pretty sure it was Ben with one of his sister’s hair bands across his face.  This ninja requires far less grace in terms of costume believability.  Plus this ninja has “authentic” foam ninja stars, whereas our former ninja just had sound effects.   My only regret is that his grandma left for home, or I mean my mother-in-law left for home (as I am not really sure of the identity of this ninja) a few hours before he appeared.

Anyway I need to get into a new paradigm.  Instead of WWJD (What would Jesus do?)  I need to wonder WWCND (What would Chuck Norris do?)  I am not certain of all of it, but I am pretty sure he would think this was one cool ninja.  I think that too….I just wish we could find our son Ben.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

God Bless America!! Happy 236th!!

Today we celebrate the 236th birthday of this great nation of ours.  Yet in my 51 years, I have not lived through a time such as this.  We as a people are more polarized than ever.  We speak about what separates us, rather than that Great Melting Pot we learned about as children in school where we come t realize we are all Americans first.

I am proud to be an American. Sure, I have a family heritage, but I am an American first.  I am blessed to live and to raise my family here, and I will dedicate today and every day to giving thanks for our Country.

God Bless these United States of America and Happy 236th!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

A dog’s life……..

Sometimes while making my way through life I look at Viper and think “wow, what a great life you live.”  He has very little stress or responsibility.  He is happy to see everyone and everyone is happy to see him (except 3 year old Jack next door who is afraid of dogs).  He hangs with his fake squirrel, satisfied that he will not be catching a real one (he will not take a part in fulfilling the Peter Principle). And he eats and sleeps when he wants…..which is pretty much all the time.

My life, on the other hand, is often chaotic.  It is quite regularly filled with stress, change, and uncertainty.  It is mired with too much responsibility, and as much as I would love it, not everyone is happy to see me…..although Jack and his family seem to like me!  I do feed all our squirrels, but do not have one of my own or even a fake one.  I am however considering buying Ben a “Secret Squirrel” costume so at least one will talk to me.  And of course I probably live my life as the poster child for the Peter Principle.

But no, I am not jealous, I just admire him.  He is a good and loyal friend (unless Scotty is around) who helps keep me sane and being able to do what I do.  And today, on a pretty rough day, I thank God for him.  Viper, you are one awesome dog!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

The Gift that Keeps on Giving……….

Today Stephanie had her heart procedure performed and they felt it was a complete success.  She was nervous, as we all were, but fortunately everything went extremely well.  Steph is a very fine-tuned athlete, and that was well in her favor.  It just made my day to be able to bring her home with this all resolved.

AND here is some exciting news……Steph is now responsible for what has come to be known as “The Mystical Camel of Healing,” and as you can clearly see from the picture, she is TOTALLY THRILLED.

The camel made its original appearance in 2008 on the week that I had my stroke.  As the story goes, the kids were cracking up about it as it was for sale in the gift shop (St. Vincent’s Hospital….probably a remnant from a Nativity set) and just “had to buy it.”  That camel stared at me all through my hospital stay and recovery…..that is until my dad got sick and had surgery either last year or the year before.

Oh yes, he received the camel, not willingly but as a good sport……he himself waiting the day when he could unload, I mean pass it on.  He seemed a little too excited a few months ago when I had my knee problem.  Asking in a very concerned way if I was having surgery.  Of course we are all now on guard.    So when I hear the words, “I hear you may be having surgery,” what it translates to is “I am hoping to unload this stupid camel.”  Sadly for him I just needed my knee drained and shot up….and sadly again I forgot to mention that eye surgery I had in March.

But of course we are not nearly as pastoral to Stephanie, the co-originator of the camel tradition.  My dad was glad to give it up, and quite honestly there will be hell to pay when she finds out that Scotty reminded my dad and even went to pick it up.  He may be having a surgery of his own sometime within days.

But the camel is hers to worry about for now and she is waiting for one of us to need it.  I am sure it will not be hers for long.  But although it is just a stuffed camel, it has also meant a lot in terms of joy.  It made me laugh in quite a few tough times in my life, including today.  I am just glad she is okay.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

Prayer request and the Circus-de-Olay……

Yeah, I don’t get it either.  Why a traveling circus would be sponsored by a hand cream I do not know. I was just blessed by the fact that my wife and mother-in-law went to the circus (escaping our own personal circus here) and they had a great time.  But if I want to see men in tights, I will watch Robin Hood.  It’s really not my thing, plus I am brand-loyal to the hand cream I buy at the Tractor Supply.

But my main request is not for this, but for my daughter Stephanie who will be in the hospital tomorrow for hopefully a successful procedure.  Steph’s heart goes into wildly fast rhythms off and on, and although she has worn a monitor for quite some time, they have yet to catch what they need to see for recording.  Tomorrow the doctors will attempt to make her heart go into those wild rhythms and then find the circuits causing them and permanently sever them if they can.  As regular readers will know, Steph is a pretty high level college lacrosse player, and she needs this to be resolved in order to keep playing.  (She is also a biochemistry major who would continue with that even if she is not allowed to play.) But to Steph, her passion is on the line and I can understand the anxiety.

She is a great kid and a wonderful daughter.  Hopefully tomorrow night’s post will have a very positive resolution.  Please just keep her in your prayers.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tommy+

The Big 5………

Yep, today was Ben’s 5th birthday, something that he has been waiting all his life for, and thank goodness it arrived!  He spent the day having it be “all about him,” which is very different from most days……well, okay, it is not.  But the point is, he had a great time.

Quite a few months ago he said he wanted a Batman birthday party, and he wanted it at the pool…..which he did.  He had cake, presents, and family.  It was a great time.  And although we had lifeguards there on duty, I want to thank Scott, Steph, and Celeste for taking the brunt of the little kid-dom.  They had fun.

But now it is over and I am exhausted, but not as much as Amanda and her mom.  They did a LOT and Amanda had been working on this for months.  It was a real hit.

And speaking of hits, I intend now to “hit” the bed.  I am pretty well spent, and I have a busy day on tap for tomorrow.  But the big guy is 5!!!  What a great way to end the day!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+

Did I mention it RAINED?????

I was going to post tonight about how my youngest, Ben, was spending his last night as a 4 year old…..it is a pretty unique thing, but then again, so is what happened this afternoon.

Yes, as amazing as it may seem to share, TODAY it RAINED!  And, it rained hard and long.  I was actually at the Wal-Mart when it started and as I went to the car it was really coming down.  In fact, I got CLOCKED by some hail right into my eye (my right eye, the bad one) but who am I to complain…it was RAINING!!!!

And it was a pretty good storm too.  The picture shows how it ripped off the bottom of one of the Mike’s Express flags in Anderson, and I was detoured a few times on the way home due to fallen trees. (Yes we have stuff in our yard down, particularly as I paid for stuff to be removed last week) BUT IT RAINED!!!  YEE HA!

The other picture is from the house behind us…..the storm snapped a big tree in half.  You can see from the guy in the picture that the snap was at least 50 ft high.  These are BIG trees!  It’s a mess, but it rained…..and ultimately, today, that’s what we are thankful for the most!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tommy+