I went to the Kroger tonight to buy a bottle of champagne to make a drink called a Peach Bolini for Amanda, and sure enough the cashier asked me if I was old enough to be buying that. Of course I told her I was but 22 short months away from my AARP card. She never did ask for my ID. I would like to think she was serious, but I suppose she was just kidding. Stephanie is just about 3 years from 21…..I on the other hand am miles from it. I will just take it as a compliment I suppose.

Of course in this day and age it is hard to tell any one’s age. Oh sure it is easy when they are Ben’s age (2), but as an example my lacrosse team consists of girls between 14 and 18, yet most look quite a bit older. Scott, who is now 16 and driving, looks so very young to me. Steph I WISH looked 10 or 12, but she looks in her 20’s too. It’s not my eyesight….and the reality is killing me.

But in the end, I suppose I can chalk it up to that “payback” my parents told me about when I was putting them through it. Yep, God often gives the troublemakers children of their own so that they can be scared too! My parents were scared for other reasons (all sealed in the court records…..yes, that is a joke) but I worry about mine all the time. I would like to take comfort in the fact that I still have my mind, but we all know that to not be true!

Anyway, the Peach Bolini is done and I hope she likes it….it it too sweet for me. I will just do a few things and head to bed. It has been a long day and tomorrow may be longer! I hope however, that yours was blessed!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tom+

Tonight has been a hoot. Amanda is at a book study group, and Ben and I have been playing for hours. I was about to put him to bed when our women’s lacrosse team’s favorite movie, “The Adventures of Sharkboy and Lavagirl” came on the Disney channel. Ben was absolutely mesmerized! It is now 10 and I am letting him stay up (after all his mom is gone) and he has no regrets….in fact, neither do I.

In truth, Sharkboy and Lavagirl is probably one of the worst movies of all time….that’s why the lacrosse girls like it. When they were here watching it a few months ago their laughter was heard all over our house. We actually own the 3D version, but Ben would never wear the glasses I am sure.

But in just a few minutes Sharkboy and Lavagirl will save the world….perhaps just minutes before Ben and my world ends…..but it will be worth it. He is having the time of his short little life, and I am enjoying it too. He and I have a lot of fun together. I am more than happy to let it continue tonight!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless. Maybe she will not notice we are both still up! I can dream!

Tom+

Ben and I spent the night together having dinner, entertaining each other, and preparing for bed. It is now 11p, and we are simultaneously irritating his mom together (because he thinks we are still awake playing), although I am pretty sure she is not nearly as amused as we are! One or both of us may not survive until the morning!!

My hope and prayer however is that we all live, not just through the night, but for quite a long time beyond then too. After all we are men, and despite being told the rules, we are still bound to muck them up! As an example, our laughter tonight is only irritating to her…we are still very amused with ourselves!

But with that, we may need to just call it a night…..we are funny, but certainly not stupid! Laughter is great, but our intent is to live to laugh another day!

Keep smiling….I know we are! And goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tom+

Well, the day went pretty well. I had an additional EKG, just to make sure. The doc did want me to go on some meds, which I declined, and instead I chose to broker a deal. I have three months in which to get my labs down to a suitable level via diet and exercise, or I will give into the meds.

In truth, my numbers are great, all except that I am a stroke patient. My weight is up, as is my bad cholesterol, but it is within the normal range had I not had a stroke. My blood pressure continues to be at a rock star level, and apparently I will not have the hole patched…at least not yet. Statistically it is more risky to have an additional stroke by repairing it. I will wait and get myself in gear.

With that, I am working on charting a course. I know I will make it, but I am going to begin on Sunday to post on here my progress and also on Twitter if I ever do figure it out. I have two accounts on there apparently and I need just the one. When I figure it out everything should be fine.

Anyway, I will let you know tomorrow. As for tonight, I am done…stick a fork in me!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless!

Tom+

Okay, tomorrow morning I head to the cardiologist for the reports on all my tests. This is why I don’t use the vet as my primary doc. I am afraid she will say, “Amanda, it’s time to put ol’ Tommy down.” But no, I am not expecting bad news. This will help decide if the hole they found in my heart last year when I had the stroke needs to be patched. If so, I suppose I am not done with doctors, but if not then I can work on other ways to give myself trouble.

Personally I am just wanting to get an answer. The worry of not knowing, which I have now carried for over a year is more bothersome than facing even having it fixed. They are not sure if that was a partial cause of the stroke or not, but if it is a danger, then best to have it fixed.

So anyway, please say a prayer in the morning for me. It will just be a meeting, the hard stuff is done. I am certain the future includes a change in diet, so just also pray I don’t break down in there as he shares I need to change a few things I enjoy!

But that’s it for me today! Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tommy+

Please keep our churches in your prayers. We are seeing a lot of interest as of late from many different areas and although our intention is to reach out to all of them, the problems is that it will stretch the clergy even more. We need more help, and I often worry about that as I look ahead to the future.

Of course in faith we always know that the lord provides for us. He has since the beginning, and I know we can count on Him to do His part. I just wish His part was a little bit quicker and clearer at times! (A common issue for us all!) But we will just be patient and steadfast. In the end it will all be fine….it always is.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tom+

After tons of searching, we finally found the organ/piano we have been looking for to replace the one that was not working at St. Patrick’s. In this age of electronics you would have thought this search would have been easier, but it took a lot to find this. Of course the stand we attach it to has to come from someplace else, so we still do have a bit to wait, but hopefully by Friday morning everything will be done! Thanks to Scotty for all his help getting this finished.

All and all, it has been a pretty productive day. I still have a lot carrying over into tomorrow, but at least I am making some progress. There IS light at the end of the tunnel, and I am confident it is not a train!! With another day like today maybe I can get some rest and enjoy some time with my family tomorrow night.

This afternoon both Steph and Scott went out to do a couple of hours of volunteer work at a local shelter. The funny part was that when they arrived the woman at the desk asked them why they were there. Steph informed her that they were there to do some community service to which the woman replied, “Do you mind if I ask you what the charges were?” Scott said he thought about just listing off a few capitol crimes, but they instead told the boring truth……they need volunteer hours for school and college.

Anyway, my two wannabe convicts returned home and now have a great story. In truth, I am very blessed, and often surprised, by what great kids they are. They had a pretty interesting day.

But that’s it today for me my friends! Goodnight and God Bless.

Tom+

Tonight will probably be one of my favorite memories of all time. Scotty loaded his dog Viper into his car and they went to Potter’s Bridge Park for a two mile walk. I have never seen them happier together, and Viper was not concerned at all that Scott had had his license less than a week. He obediently held his leash and hopped in the passenger seat for the trip to the park. It looks to be a daily thing.

Scott did say that Viper hogged all his water. AND….when they stopped a a gas station to get Scott a drink, Viper attracted a policeman and a family to talk to through the window telling him what a handsome boy he was. Viper, Charisma’s AngelCreek Snakenshake, is our kennel’s foundation male. He is a great dog, but all about Scott, his owner and companion. I am not on the porch tonight but in my office, and Viper and Scott are out in the rec-room watching “Evan Almighty” together. They are good buddies who have waited a long time to enter this era together. They deserve it.

It was a sight however, that gave me great joy. A boy and his dog spending a summer’s night together. I am sure there will be many more.

As for me, I am about at the end of my day. Time to feed the others and go to bed.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless. I hope you have had a wonderful day!

Tommy+

Okay I will admit that Amanda is sometimes right……sometimes when I travel I have trouble adjusting for a few days. Today was a great example. I couldn’t get to sleep last night and shortly after I did I woke up, at 4:30, and that was all she wrote. I was up for the rest of the day. I did manage two services and two sermons (without notes!) and then a bit of honey-do work at home.

But when Ben, Scott, and Amanda left for what they call “Veggie Pizza” (a gathering for youngsters to eat pizza and watch Veggietales movies) at St. Patrick’s, I laid down for a short nap. I needed to rest, but when I woke up just 30 minutes later I was perhaps more confused as I had ever been in my life. I had no idea if it was morning or night, no idea of where anyone was (since I was home alone), and actually for a short while quite fearful to not have any answers!

Of course when we are disoriented it takes some time to get our bearings, and after what seemed to be a long wait but in truth was probably only a minute or two, things started to come back and I realized that my wife was probably right again. I hate to admit to that, especially publicly, but my earlier confusion is most probably just begetting this additional confusion…..my public confession.

It’s now just shy of 10pm and I am feeling pretty sharp, so hopefully with a good night’s sleep I can level off tomorrow. I need to too. We have a lot going on, including a couple of new churches in the works. It is a busy, but vital time.

I do hope your Sunday has been blessed one! Off to bed for me!

Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tom+

Home at last! What a glorious day! Our Director of Music Sarah was a beautiful bride and Blake looked as handsome and happy as ever. (see their picture on our website www.IndianaAnglican.com) It was one of my favorite weddings ever. We had such a great time with such great people!

But it is good to be home. Only Deacon Dan and I are in town to cover the Churches tomorrow and I have Westfield and Anderson. I have everything ready to go, but have decided to not write a sermon, and attempt it instead extemporaneously. That is a big step for me, but I delivered my homily today at the wedding without notes today and did fine. The lessons tomorrow are quite familiar too. So I will either be fine or a goat. Sarah has decided to go on her honeymoon and not play tomorrow, so I best not be the goat!! People are far happier when she plays!

Amanda and Steph bagged us and went to the movies and Scotty and Ben played in the tent for a while and about a half hour ago snuck up to Scott’s room, which Ben also thinks is his. Okay Ben is two and thinks everything is his. But when his brother is around he just wants to be there. They are pretty tight. He has Steph eating out of the palm of his hand, but Scott is his wrestling buddy and general trouble partner. They are in hog-heaven when they are together, which incidentally is just an expression…..even in Arkansas where the Razorback is worshipped in parts of my family.

Anyway, I am tired, punchy and a bit giddy. With only the cat to talk to I suppose it doesn’t matter, but to be of any good tomorrow I best go to bed.

But it truly has been a glorious day. Congratulations Blake and Sarah! (now Mr. and Mrs. Sampson!) We love you both and a so very happy for you! Enjoy Canada, but not too much! We want you coming home soon.

Goodnight my friends and God Bless.

Tom+